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STEP-BY-STEP INSTRUCTIONS
FOR
LEARNING HOW TO
DEEP THROAT !
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Does all this disclaimer language
mean that deep
throating is unsafe? Hardly!
But you do need to fully understand that you're about to learn how to jamb
things down your throat... something your throat really wasn't designed
for. Use common sense, okay? (I know, I know... sadly lacking in
today's world) For example, don't force things to the point of
physically injuring yourself... seems logical, right? Mostly, at all
times, remember that this is supposed to be fun! Treat it as such!! :-)
No, we’re not. One of the first things you
encounter when you start sucking cock is your gag reflex. Most men seem to want
to force their cocks down your throat as far as they can get it (particularly at
the moment when they cum!). As discussed earlier, it's a man's nature to want to
thrust his cock into you as far as he can get it, particularly at the moment
when he cums. If he wants all of his cock in you, can you take it all in? Do you
want to take it all in (in fact, do you even need to take it all in)? Consider
this: the length of your mouth from your lips to the back of your throat is
about 3" to 3½", while the average cock's length is 5" to
5½". The laws of nature would seem to say that getting all of that cock
into your mouth is an impossibility... but the laws of sex say that you'll want
to get all of it inside you.
Hey, don't look so sad! Many women can do it and
so can you - you can take as much of his cock into you as you want. You simply
take as much of it into your mouth as will fit there, and then slide your throat
down over its head until the rest of it is in your mouth and your face is buried
in his bush. It's called deep throating, and when you really get into cock
sucking you'll probably want to do it. The term was made popular in the ‘70s
porno movie of the same name starring the (now) infamous Linda Lovelace. She
wasn't the first woman to do it by any means: women have been taking men's cocks
down their throats for centuries… she simply popularized the term used today.
Can anyone learn to perform deep throat?
Yes and no. For example, if you have a very small oral cavity and are
attempting to slide a very large penis into your throat, no matter how great
your desire it may just be physically impossible. That said, in most
cases, with some practice the "average" woman can easily deep
throat the "average" penis. Extremes, either way, are
rare.
You can give your man fabulous head without using
your throat. Remember, most of the action occurs at the head of his cock –
taking any more of it into your mouth is simply the icing on the cake. You can
use your mouth on the head of his cock and your hand on its shaft and put him on
cloud nine. But, maybe you’re the kind of women who likes both the cake and
the icing, and is willing to work for it – even if it means burying your face
in his bush. Although most men will be satisfied with the cake, there aren’t
many men who would turn down the icing if offered. You need to try it enough to
discover if you get any pleasure from this act – if you've given it a good try
and simply don't like it, then don't do it… he'll understand. And,
it's especially fulfilling to deep throat someone that isn't
expecting it... their eyes grow as large as a silver dollar when you slide the
whole length in for the very first time!
deep throat?
Four reasons immediately come to mind:
- First
,
it is visually arousing... very visually arousing! Many of you have
seen videos or pictures of a woman deep throating an erect penis. It is a very
erotic image, especially watching her neck and throat expand and bulge as the
penis slides in-and-out… and one that all men get off on!
- Second, if you don't like the taste of
your man's semen but he wants to ejaculate in your mouth, when you perform deep
throat the head of his penis is in so deeply that it extends past
the taste buds that are on the back of the tongue. While this doesn't
completely eliminate the taste, it is not as strong when done this way.
- Third
,
it a power thing for a woman to do. He must completely trust her. She
has all the control.
- Fourth
,
when done right, with enthusiasm and skill, most men find it very, VERY
pleasurable. Imagine your delight when you hear your man moan with pleasure as
you do things to his penis that most men only dream of!
Most men report that they feel a
"pleasurable ring of tightness" around the circumference of the penis
just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside
of the cock where the head joins the shaft (by the way, this area is the most
sensitive region on the penis - when done correctly, you can bring your man to a
very powerful orgasm just by sucking and licking on this spot). Almost no one says they dislike the
feeling.
It's actually fairly easy to learn to "take
it all in." Getting his cock in your throat is easy – getting your throat
used to it being in there is what takes practice. While it might be a tad
boring, if you understand the anatomy of your mouth and throat, you'll see how
easy it really is to take his hard cock down into your throat. The biggest
obstacle to getting it into your throat is not the size of either his cock or
your throat – it’s that sharp bend behind your tongue at the entrance to
your throat. Stand in front of a wall mirror and use a hand mirror to get a good
side view of your head and neck. Open your mouth wide… tilt your head as far
back as you can and see how your open mouth almost lines up with your neck.
There, that bend is almost gone. Check out your guy's cock – feel how flexible
it really is – especially the end of it. Look at the shape of its head; you’ll
note that there will be no problem sliding it around that curve.
A little more anatomy – yours this time. Recall
that the length of your mouth (the oral cavity) is 3" to 3½"
from your lips to what I'm going to call the back of your throat (the vertical
part of your throat that you see when you look in a mirror). Your trachea –
the tube to your lungs – is at the front of your neck (you can feel it with
your fingers). Your esophagus – the tube to your stomach – sits
behind the trachea. Your throat – which is vertical and about 4"
long – connects your mouth to your esophagus in a straight line. When you take
anything into your mouth, your tongue rises against the rear part of the roof of
your mouth (the soft pallet with its attached uvula) to close off your
throat. When you swallow, your tongue whips backwards and shoots whatever is in
your mouth down your throat and into your esophagus. There's an opening in the
front side of your throat that leads into the larynx (the entrance to
your trachea). The larynx has a flap or lid – the epiglottis – that closes
off the larynx to prevent anything from entering your trachea (e.g. his cum)
when you swallow. The larynx also contains your vocal cords. The amazing thing
about this arrangement is that it lets his cock slide from your mouth down to
the bottom of your throat without entering your larynx or disturbing your vocal
cords.
Your throat is about 2" wide at its entrance
(a little less from front-to-back as it passes behind the larynx). It's somewhat
bigger in diameter than the "average" cock. The entrance into your esophagus from
your throat is only about 1" in diameter, so his cock generally won't go
into your esophagus without lots of practice and conditioning. So, the
math says that you can easily slide your mouth and throat down over a cock that is
about 7" to 9" long and about 1½ " to 2" in diameter.
How does this compare to the size of your man? (Answer: these
statistics encompass more than nine out of every ten men) Doing
so will have your lips pressed against his groin and have the head of his cock
just pressing against the bottom of your throat. It makes a nice fit… your
guy's cock will just about fill your mouth and throat, you'll like the feel of
it filling you up.
Let’s use an analogy that all you contact lens
wearers will readily understand. Remember the difficulty you had overcoming the
involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in your lenses?
And, for those that wore hard contacts, do you remember the moderate discomfort
and copious tears the first time they were placed in your eyes? But with
practice and patience you were able to stop tearing, stop experiencing any
discomfort, insert them on the first try, and (by gradually increasing the
amount of time they were in your eyes) get to where you could keep them in all
day. The same applies to deep throating! In the same way that you
really wanted to learn to wear your contact lenses, if you really want to learn
to give deep throat, are
patient, and practice the techniques described in the next several sections, and
you’ll be a world-class deep throater in no time at all!
I promise!!
What I’m going to suggest is that you should do
some homework before you try to deep throat a real live cock. While technical
discussions about anything as pleasurable and emotional as sex is no fun, on the
other hand you don’t want to run into any unpleasant surprises that will turn
you off before you experience the pleasures of deep throating. You'll need to
learn some simple details that'll help you overcome your gag reflex and control
your breathing before the pleasures of deep throating can really be enjoyed.
Obviously, one of the first things you probably
encountered when you started sucking his cock was a gag reflex when it went too
far in. It's the natural tendency of your body to gag when a foreign object,
such as a deeply thrusting cock, is trying to slide down into your throat. But
with
practice you can learn to control your gag reflex. You then learn how to relax
your tongue so you can slide his cock past it and down into your throat (you
also have to learn to control your tongue during the entire time you're deep
throating).
In fact, there's really not much learning
involved. You've already gotten used to having his cock in your mouth – now
all you have to do is get used to having it in your throat. Here’s what you
do: get yourself a soft, flexible dildo of the "proper size" so you
can practice with it in private at your leisure (the solid jellies are the most
comfortable). You may want to get what is called a "double dong" so
that you'll have something straight with enough length to hold on to –
1¼" in diameter and about 10" long (!) is a good size to start with. Most
cocks are not much bigger in diameter and you need one this long to find out how
much cock you can take. If your guy's cock is bigger in diameter, then also get
one that is about ¼" to ½" wider than his penis (after you’ve
mastered the one-and-a-quarter you’ll want to practice on the larger size so
that you’ll know that you’ll be successful when it’s time to perform on
the real thing).
You just use the dildos to limber up the muscles
of the throat: start with the smallest and work your way up (since the muscles
in the throat are like any other muscle in your body you’ll find that they
will limber-up and expand the more you practice). Remember that the tighter the
fit, the better it feels for your man. And, depending on the size and shape of
your throat, you may even be able to breathe slowly through your mouth (maybe even
through your nose) after you get the dildo past your pallet and down into your
throat a ways. Otherwise, learn to time your breathing with the in-and-out
strokes of the dildo. Note:
NEVER,
NEVER,
EVER practice on hot dogs, sausages,
cucumbers, zucchini, or even peeled bananas - they can break-off in your
throat and choke you!
If you don't have any adverse reaction to the
medicine, dissolve one-or-two Cepacol (or equivalent) sore throat lozenges in
your mouth about 15 minutes before you start to practice with the dildo (they
will mildly anesthetize your throat and will help eliminate the gag reflex until
you get used to having it in your throat). An alternative method is to place ½
teaspoon of liquid Oragel (a medicine normally used to numb the gums when
experiencing tooth pain) in a syringe, place the syringe on the back of your
tongue, squirt in the contents onto the back of your throat, and swallow. After
a minute-or-so your throat will be completely numb. The effect will last about 5
minutes, provided you don’t drink anything (just don’t over do it – never
use more than two dosages per evening, as more could make you sick). Be careful
though and don't get too aggressive with the dildo when your throat is
anesthetized or you could bruise the lining at the back without feeling it.
By the way, you may think you see a short cut
here (but there really aren’t any short cuts when learning to be a
virtuoso, right?):
why not just deaden your throat, skip all of this practice, and go straight to
doing your man? Great concept, except that the same medicine that is deadening
your gag reflex will also deaden the nerve endings in his penis after just a couple of thrusts. Your short cut into the world of
deep throating
will then come to a screeching halt as he loses his erection. If you’re wondering whether all of this
is worth it, remember the old adage: if you’re going to do something, do it
right the first time!
Prior to starting, be sure that the dildo (and,
eventually, his cock) is thoroughly lubricated. THIS CANNOT BE
OVEREMPHASIZED! Strangely, an excellent lubricant is the makeup remover Albolene
(it is completely odorless and tasteless, is non-toxic, and has the added
benefit of warming as it melts!) – it can be purchased at any local
pharmacy. Another alternative is heavy mineral oil (also available at the local
pharmacy). Just note that saliva is not enough, particularly when you’re
starting out!
To start, you want to be as relaxed as possible
(yeah, right!). Take a long, hot bubble bath. Drink a glass of
wine. Put on some relaxing music. When you're ready to practice you
want to be as comfortable as possible. Now that you know what you're pushing it into,
open your mouth and slowly slide the dildo in as far as you can without gagging.
Hold it there and breathe normally, until you're comfortable with it this deeply
in your mouth. When you put something in your mouth, you begin to salivate. It's
difficult to swallow the saliva with the dildo in your mouth (since it will
interfere with your tongue as it tries to drive things out of your mouth and
down your throat). You can go through the motions of swallowing with the dildo
in your mouth (but you probably won't swallow much if it's very far in). If you
do get the urge to swallow, do it… it won't hurt anything and you can't really
swallow the dildo (or his cock when the time comes for that). For most women,
swallowing suppresses the gag reflex, so practice swallowing with the dildo in
your mouth – starting with it just past your teeth and continuing until it's
all the way down your throat. (Hint… once you’ve mastered the basic
technique, try swallowing when you get his cock in your throat, it feels great
to him)
If your head is tilted back, the saliva will run
down your throat and interfere with your breathing – so you'll have to take
the dildo out and clear your mouth and throat from time to time. Try sliding the
dildo in a little farther. By now you've probably got it to the point where
you'll start to gag. When you feel like you're going to gag, try swallowing –
this usually stops the gag reflex. If it doesn't, pull out the dildo and relax.
Be sure to concentrate on the feelings and physical reactions your body has when
you trigger the gag reflex. You want to deliberately trigger your gag reflex so
that you can learn what causes it, recognize it’s warning signs, and
ultimately control it. The entire point to these exercises is for you to learn
to recognize your body’s natural reactions. By recognizing them you can
control them.
Now slide it slowly back in until you feel the
gag reflex again, pull it back out a little, swallow and push it back in. Use
your tongue to play with the dildo. Feel how it fits in your mouth. Learn to get
your tongue to come down from the roof of your mouth at the rear when you have
the dildo in there (you'll have to get it down before you can get the dildo to
go down into your throat).
Stick your tongue out as far as you can between
your teeth and the dildo. This will pull your tongue down, so that all you’ll
have to do is get used to keeping it down. Now, play some music, read a book,
watch TV, just get used to it being in there. Suck on it, work on it like it was
a big piece of stick candy. When you get used to it being in that far, slide it
in further. Keep going, a little at a time, until it comes up against the
back of your throat. As it nears the back of your throat, it'll begin to
close off the passage to your nose and interfere with your normal breathing (despite
this, you will probably be able to breathe through your mouth, so give that a try). If you can't,
just take a deep breath, slide it in and hold it there until you need to take
another breath – then take it out, breathe, and slide it back in again. Keep
practicing with the dildo until you're comfortable with it in your mouth, your
tendency to gag is gone, and you can keep your tongue down.
Once you're used to the dildo being all the way
in your mouth, the next step is to start getting it down into your throat. To do
this you'll have to get it "around the corner." Tilt your head back so
that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line and try to slide it in
further. You will encounter some resistance; try tilting your head back-and-forth
while you're sliding it in (you'll be able to feel the improvement this
makes).
There's also a vertical ridge in the back of your throat – the dildo will slip
to one side or the other of this ridge as you continue to push in on it... You
can twist it around to make it go one way or the other (if one side begins to
feel uncomfortable, use the other).
In the beginning, the best way to get it
"around the corner" and down into your throat isn't to just push it
but to literally inhale it. This is also easier on the back of your throat. Put
the dildo all the way in your mouth and fold your tongue up around it to make a
seal, hold your nose, and, while gently pushing in on it, inhale hard using your
lungs to suck it around the corner. It'll go easily as your lungs pull it down
into your throat (you may be able to inhale it by simply inhaling quickly and
deeply). You'll have to limit how deep a breath you take before you try to
inhale it though. Once you get it around the corner, it'll just slide on down.
With practice, you'll probably be able to simply slide it in your mouth and on
down to the bottom of your throat with one smooth stroke, but inhaling it can
also be sort of fun too. When you push the dildo into your throat, it wants to
stop against the back of your throat; as you push harder, it suddenly breaks
loose and sort of pops down into your throat – after which it slides on down
almost as easily as it went into your mouth.
Don't try to slide it all the way down your
throat at first… just get it around the corner. If you can breathe with the
dildo in your throat, great, open that book back up; otherwise, when you need to
breathe, pull the dildo back out, take a deep breath, slide it back in and then
open the book up. While it's in there, move it in-and-out some, twist it around.
If you feel that you're going to gag, try swallowing or pull back on the dildo,
it'll pop right out. If you do gag or cough with it still in your throat, don't
worry, it won't hurt anything. Pull it out, relax, then try it again.
After you get the dildo down in your throat, it
doesn't make much difference how you hold your head. It'll feel more comfortable
in some positions and will have some effect on your breathing (but nothing
major). With your head held back, your saliva will run down your throat and may
interfere with your breathing. If you sit upright and are breathing through your
mouth, it'll drool out of your mouth. The most comfortable position is probably
sitting upright in a chair with a headrest, breathing through your mouth with a
towel under your chin.
is
getting easier
After your throat gets used to the dildo being in
that far, slide it in further and hold it there for a while. Continue sliding it
down into your throat one step at a time, holding it after each step to swallow
and relax your throat. Continue this pattern until you've got it in about
4" or 5". Remember to keep the dildo heavily lubricated! If
your throat starts to feel sore or just doesn't like for the dildo to be in
there, stop and try it again the next day. Or, you might also try rubbing some
Ben Gay or other topical muscle relaxant on your neck (external use only, of
course!). Just don't feel discouraged: these details will soon become second
nature and you won't even realize you're doing them. Remember, you're practicing
with the dildo so that one evening, when you're busily working away on his cock,
you can look up at him, smile, and, with one smooth movement, bury your face in
his pubes (which will be guaranteed to produce a very loud gasp from him!). Look
forward to taking his cock into your throat… it'll feel good there, not
foreign like the dildo. The real thing is much softer and will enter your throat
far more easily and without any discomfort.
Most of the time, you'll want to breathe through
your nose when you've got his cock in your mouth. Find out where the dildo
begins to block the breathing passage from your nose to your throat. It'll be at
the point where the dildo pushes back on your soft pallet and uvula as it begins
to enter your throat. Slide it in-and-out, blocking and uncovering your
breathing passage, until you can readily find the location and recognize what it
feels like. The soft palate, which closes off your throat from your nose, may
tend to stay closed as you withdraw the dildo, especially if you're trying to
exhale at the same time… you'll get used to controlling this.
You'll soon get to the point where you can stroke
the dildo in-and-out from your teeth well down into your throat and wiggle it
around in your throat without getting the urge to gag on it. Now, slide it on
down and find out how much cock you can really take. As it slides past the
entrance to your trachea you may get a choking response and cough – kind of
like you had taken some water down the wrong way. Just pull it back out and
relax, then put it back in and play around in that area until your throat gets
used to it. If the choking response doesn't ease up, take it out and try it
again the next day. When you feel any significant resistance or discomfort,
probably around 7" to 9", stop – you’ve hit your bottom line where
your esophagus begins. If you’re standing by a mirror, you may be amazed that
you can actually see where the dildo is by the moving bulge in your neck! Unless
you’re really adventurous, set the limit of the size cock you'll allow
anyone to shove into your throat about an inch short of that point (this still
gives plenty of room to take the average cock all the way in). On one of your
practice strokes, take a deep breath and keep the dildo almost at the bottom of
your throat, sliding it in-and-out using 1" to 2" strokes at about one
stroke a second – this will help get the bottom of your throat used to the
feeling of his climax.
I referred above to you "really adventurous
types" (which, in effect means wanting to swallow the top 1% or 2% of
the cocks out there). If your man is exceedingly lengthy and you just won’t be happy until
you can swallow all of him to the root, here’s the method you’ll need to
penetrate further into the esophagus (remember, it’s difficult, but you’ve
seen sword-swallowers do it... so it must be possible).
At this juncture your brain
has become paranoid that this massive intruder might go into your windpipe, so
it’s creating a sphincter in there that closes up. How do you get around it?
Well, have you ever sucked air into your stomach to make a burp? You do it by
sort of opening your throat and sucking in – that’s the technique you use to
get down into your esophagus. When you feel the dildo (or his cock) "hit
bottom" around the 7" to 9" mark, do four things right away: (1)
pretend that you’re trying to swallow air to make a burp and open your throat;
(2) swallow hard (very important!); (3) move your tongue vigorously inward; and
(4) shove gently.
The first few times you might have to shove a little harder
than you might believe, because you are fighting against your own brain
here. (Also, the first few times there will probably be a momentary flash of a brand
new sensation deep in your throat – this is caused by the stimulation of
thousands of nerves that had hitherto been unused. Your brain is rapidly trying
to sort out whether it’s pain, or heat, or what… in actuality, it’s just
pressure, which your brain will figure-out in a second or two). As you gain
experience, your brain will eventually recognize the signals, and you will feel
only the pleasure of the dildo’s surface sliding along the smooth surface of
the inside of your esophagus. It’s definitely more difficult than simple deep
throating, but certainly not impossible if you want to attempt it.
As you practice with the dildo, develop a
breathing rhythm. Stop with the dildo just clear of your throat, take a deep
breath and hold it. Then, push the dildo into your throat, sliding it all the
way to the bottom in one smooth motion and hold it there until you feel the need
to exhale. Smoothly withdraw the dildo until it just clears your breathing
passage, stop, quickly exhale-and-inhale, hold your breath and take the dildo
all the way back in. Wait until you need to take another breath and repeat the
cycle. Do this until the breathing cycle becomes second nature without even
thinking about it (and it does not take long to learn). If you practice every
day for about 10-to-15 minutes a day, you'll have it down into your throat in less
than a week. Another week of 15-to-20 minutes a day and you'll be comfortably
stroking it down to the bottom of your throat.
By the way, you can also practice in-between your
sessions with the dildo by using either two fingers, or a toothbrush or a brush
handle (so long as there are no sharp edges and there’s a "handle"
at one end, for you can hang on to). NEVER let yourself get discouraged! Always
remember, where there is a will there is a way!!
At the outset, I mentioned Linda Lovelace…
here are four stills from the film "Deep Throat", showing her in
action. Note that in the upper right photo you can see her change positions
slightly to help get Harry Reems' cock "around the corner".
One of the best positions to practice deep
throating with a real live cock is to kneel in front of him with your head
tilted back while he's standing. But the most restful position – and the one
you should use when you first start – is with him sitting up slightly in bed
while you kneel between his legs with your head tilted back.
The size and shape of most cocks is normally not
a problem for deep throating… you can guide it with your hands if you have to,
and (unless your oral cavity is abnormally small) can normally relax enough to handle some pretty big ones. Although curved
ones can be fun to play with, the curve of his cock can sometimes present a
problem. When you examine his cock, which way is it curved? Lay him on
his back and work up a good hard-on for him. Which way is it pointing? Most
guys' cocks will curve slightly up toward their head or point straight to the
ceiling. If his does either, then you'll probably be able to slide it home
without any problems. A nice curve in the upward direction can be a perfect fit
for man on top 69... it's the downward curve that's a problem. If it curves down
very much, you may not be able to deep throat in the 69 position as his cock will
tend to bend instead of slide in. You would have to guide it in with your hands
on each stroke. However, it will work fine if you kneel in front of him where he
could hold your head with his hands and fuck away.
Think you’re ready? Then
prepare to blow his mind!
By now, having practiced with the dildo, you
should be able to slide your mouth and throat down over his cock until your lips
are buried in his bush without getting the slightest urge to gag…
all-the-while working it around in the bottom of your throat for as long as you
can hold your breath (if you haven't yet gotten this far, keep practicing...
you don't need to rush yourself to trying it on the real thing until you
are completely confident of your new found abilities). And, if you can breathe with it in your throat, you should
be able to slide your throat up-and-down on his cock until you simply get tired
of doing it or until he cums (which will NOT take very long at all once you start doing
this!). You'll have to polish up on timing your breathing since you'll have to
interact with a man now. Just as with the dildo, you may be able to breathe some
with his cock down in your throat, but maybe not with it all the way in. If
you're kneeling over him or in front of him, then it's easy to time as you have
complete control. Remember, you're sliding your throat over his cock – he's not
thrusting his cock into your throat. Be sure to keep his erection very wet
with lubrication – this remains important! Lots of saliva can act as a
lubricant and makes deep throat a lot easier, but, if in doubt, use extra
lubrication. A slick erection is less likely to trigger the gag reflex.
If he's in a position where he can thrust his
cock into your throat, establish some signals for each other. The simplest ones
are for you to place your hands on his hips and, in effect, pull his cock into
and push it out of your mouth. Since you're just starting to learn to deep
throat, choose a position where you have complete control: a good one is him
sitting up slightly in bed with you kneeling between his legs. Now, suck his
cock about halfway into your mouth and hold it there, working on it a little
while you relax, and find the most comfortable way to proceed. When you're
relaxed (DON’T rush yourself), slowly start taking it in further. Just as it
begins to block your breathing, stop and relax again. When you're ready, take a
deep breath through your nose and hold it. Now, slowly slide your mouth and then
your throat down over his cock and use your lungs to inhale its head
"around the corner" (if you need to) – but try to push your throat
down over it first. Once the head has popped into your throat, your throat will
simply slide on down over his cock. Be careful and don't bump your nose on his
pelvic bone when you succeed! And, unless his cock is really, really big,
it'll go into your throat easier than the dildo. Promise! Also, it won't irritate the
back of your throat. On the plus side, if it is big enough, you won't have to use your tongue
or hold your nose to inhale it into your throat.
Sticking out your tongue between your teeth and
his cock – to get the back of it down and out of the way – is the key to
pushing the entrance to your throat over his cock without having to inhale it.
This isn’t unlike when your doctor uses a tongue depressor to push down on
your tongue so he can look down into your throat. If everything is going your
way, you'll be able to push it around the corner and bury your face into his pubes
in one smooth motion without having to inhale it. It'll make deep throating
(and, later, if you’re interested, throat fucking) much more enjoyable if his
cock will simply slide all the way in – from your teeth to the bottom of your
throat – in one smooth stroke. There will probably always be a slight
hesitation as his cock pops around the corner and starts down into your throat,
but that tends to feel good for him anyway. In fact, don’t be surprised to
find him playing around back there, rubbing his coronal ridge back and forth
through that restriction into your throat.
Remember asking the question "Can You Take
It All In?" Right now you may be wondering just how far in is "all the
way in"? As your lips get near his groin, you may find his balls start
getting in the way. The front of his scrotum is attached to the bottom of his
cock, a little way out from his body (how far out depends on the man). To really
get his cock all the way in with your face buried in his bush and your lips
pressed against his groin, you may have to take some of his scrotum into your
mouth along with it. His balls hang loose inside the scrotum so you can slide
your mouth on down over the front part of his scrotum leaving his balls outside
(you probably won’t even notice it). When you are just stroking your throat
back-and-forth over his cock and his orgasm hasn't started yet (or, you’re not
really hot yet), you probably don't want to take in much of his scrotum. Save
the full thrusts for those times when he is cuming, or for when you really want
to feel all of it in you with your mouth and face pressed tight against his
groin. Or, you may decide to just because want to play around and show-off your
prowess. To answer the original question: All the way in is when his cock is
tilted down slightly to get it away from his pelvic bone and your lips are
pressed tightly between his groin and your teeth.
Once his cock is all the way in, hold it there…
you want to get used to the sexuality of having all of it inside you. Let your
passions rise, feel your nipples harden, and rejoice as the juices start to flow
in your pussy as you get caught up in the intimacy of giving head. By the way,
did you know you can smile with a mouthful of cock? When it starts to feel good,
look up at him and try it; it'll show in your eyes and cheeks and the corners of
your mouth. At all times be sure that he can watch: men love to watch
(meaning, where deep throating is concerned, have the
room well lit and help him readily see what you are doing to his cock)!
For him, that’s half the joy in deep throating. If you can look him in the
eyes as you suck him, do so! When you need to exhale, just slide your throat
back up off his cock, quickly exhaling and inhaling just as it clears, then
slide all the way back down over his cock again and stop. Keep repeating the
cycle, pausing at the bottom of his cock each time. As you begin to enjoy it and
really get into the rhythm, start to play around with his cock while you're down
at the root of it. Move your head back and forth and around-and-around, working
your throat over the head of his cock. Feel that luscious cock pulsing and
throbbing as you work it around in your mouth and throat. Try varying lip
pressure against the base of his penis – he’ll go wild – and
he'll probably cum very, very quickly!
After you have become accustomed to taking his cock deep into your
throat try this action… it is guaranteed to take his breath away! With your
lips firmly wrapped around the cock shaft, very slowly go down to the base of the
shaft (your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the
base of the cock). Now, with your nose trace a figure "8" – as if
the figure "8" were lying on it's side (your figure "8"
motion should be three-to-four inches long). Slowly travel up the shaft of the
cock to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let
your lips firmly travel up-and-down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you
are comfortable with it (just don’t be surprised if he blows his load
then-and-there!).
By this time you are becoming more and more
confident with your partner. His cock feels great as it fills your mouth and
throat. The cock is becoming harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and
throat create friction by going up-and-down that big beautiful cock. It is time
to cool his tool just a little with this next technique:
Go down on the cock shaft as far as you can (all
the while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft). Open your mouth
as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While
sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock head. Your up-stroke
motion should end at the head of his cock just as your lungs fill with air. Now,
with your mouth still open, let out the air in your lungs slowly through your
mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the cock shaft. This technique
cools the cock on the up stoke and warms the cock with your hot breath on the
down stroke. Do this skill for as long as you like (or until he cums).
If you really want to blow his mind (so to
speak!) try giving him a throat massage. This skill is really quite simple:
while his cock is down your throat, just swallow repeatedly – the motion will
act like a massage along the entire length of his cock, and will have the added
benefit of reducing the likelihood of your gagging. And, if you’re feeling
really adventurous, when he’s all the way down in your throat try to use the
tip of your tongue to lick his balls. Just don’t be surprised if these two
techniques cause him to blow his load right then and there!
So, that’s all there is to it! These are the
basics of deep throating. Remember, practice makes perfect, so don't forget to
do your homework! Practice, practice, practice!! This isn’t like riding a
bicycle – it’s more like training to run the marathon… you need to keep
your throat in top physical condition, which takes lots of practice!
So, concluding, here are the highlights for successful deep
throating:
- Your mouth and throat need to form a
relatively straight line to allow deep penetration
- The penis must be thoroughly lubricated
- Extend your tongue past your teeth and bottom
lip to flatten the back of the tongue (and create a larger opening)
- Take a deep breath and slowly slide the cock
in, either pushing or inhaling it past the "pop" at the turn
- Swallow and use your tongue to pull the penis
downward to help alleviate gagging
- Go slowly and be patient!
Now that you've mastered deep throating, you need
to carefully consider whether or not you want to get into throat fucking. It's
not for everyone, and it's not the same as deep throating.
Deep throating is you
sliding your throat down over his cock when the urge strikes you – during, or as a
finishing touch, to great head. When a man wants you to give him head, he's in a
passive mood. He wants to lie back and enjoy it to the fullest... looking forward
with eager anticipation to those times when you bury your face in his bush.
Throat fucking, on the other hand, is allowing
your man to take charge and thrust his cock in-and-out of your throat in a way
that's pleasing to both of you. Although the motions are similar, it's not the
same as fucking your cunt. All too often, throat fucking ends up allowing a man
to take control and use your throat as a vagina. If a man isn't interested in
the subtleties of throat fucking and just wants to treat your throat like a
pussy, he's liable to be in an aggressive mood and wants to shove his cock into
something new. In that case, let him find someone else to abuse!
But then life is full of apparent contradictions:
sometimes you will want your lover to really fuck your throat. You may want
long, quick thrusts of his cock deep into your throat with his groin coming up
against your face each time he shoves his cock into you. You may find that,
during man-on-top 69, when his cock thrusts into your throat and his tongue
thrusts into your cunt at the same time, it feels like they are going to meet
somewhere in the middle of your body. At times like that, you’ll completely
surrender yourself to him, becoming caught up in pure passion, your face and
pussy rising to meet each stroke. This isn't really a contradiction: it's an
example of mutual trust and respect for each other. He knows how hard to thrust.
He's not just using you for his sexual satisfaction, he's satisfying your sexual
desires of the moment. He's deriving his pleasure as much through providing you
with great sexual pleasure as he is by satisfying his own sexual desires.
One important word of caution though: in throat fucking, a
big cock can be a curse. As we discussed in the anatomy lesson, if it's
much over 1¾" to 2" in diameter it's going to take a determined lady
to let him fuck her throat with that thing! Anything much larger than 1½:" may
even present difficulties for an average woman. And, if it's 7" or more in
length, watch out! He could injure the lower end of your throat and esophagus –
since a cock won't easily fit into your esophagus and he'll have a
tendency to bottom out.
When you deep throat
your man, you suck his cock
into your mouth and slide your throat down over it in a way that excites him and
is also comfortable and pleasurable to you. When you engage in throat fucking,
you’re letting him thrust his cock into your mouth and down into your throat
in a way that's pleasurable to him and still acceptable and pleasurable for you.
The two activities are not the same. It's not enough that you learn how
to accept his cock during throat fucking. He has to learn how to control and
direct his cock also. If you don't trust him completely, simply don't let him
get on top of you and fuck your throat! After all, if he hurts you he cuts
himself off from one of the great pleasures in life!
Until you build up this level of trust, you'll
never be able to relax enough to let him thrust his cock down into your throat
in a way that gives you any pleasure. It will also take a significant amount of
practice for him to develop a smooth straight thrust, especially if you move
your head while he's thrusting. His only requirement is to keep the motion in
the same direction throughout this oral exercise, as there is simply no leeway
for him to vary the motion from side-to-side. Until the two of you learn to
synchronize your movements, expect to see a lot of bent cocks. It's not that
stiff, and if it's not pushed in straight it'll bend (but don't worry, it'll
straighten back out). He also has to learn to control the intensity of his
thrusts, how he pushes his cock around the corner, and how hard he brings his
groin up against your face.
Remember how a man responds during his climax
when he's fucking you – it’s in his nature to thrust his cock into your cunt
deep and hard, especially as he near his climax. There's nothing wrong with
this: he "needs" to get his sperm near your uterus to fertilize your
egg. Most women like it and urge the man on, raising their vaginas to meet his
thrusts. The pelvic area of both is designed for this and it doesn't hurt
either. However, your face and throat are not designed for this. Hard thrusts
can bruise your lips and nose and injure the back of your throat.
Before you start practicing throat fucking,
you'll have to decide what position you want to be in. When he's fucking your
throat, you have to hold your head still and push against him as he pushes his
cock into your throat, and that can be tiring. He can stand with you kneeling in
front of him with your head tilted back – this gives you the most control
since you can use your hands to push his hips back and pull your head back.
However, unless you can lean forward enough, he may have to hold your head with
his hands to help you push against him so that he can thrust his cock down into
your throat without tiring you (but that can be sensual for both of you). 69 is
probably not the best one to start with; however, it may be the best position with him on top
(once both of you are comfortable with throat fucking). One problem with throat
fucking in the 69 position is that he has a hard time keeping his mind on
fucking you and sucking you at the same time. Don't worry about his problems
though… just lie there and enjoy being eaten and face-fucked at the same
time!
Lying on the bed with your head tilted
sharply-back over the edge should be comfortable for you. It lines up your
mouth, throat, and his cock better than other positions and provides support for
your head so you don't have to push back against his thrusts. He can straddle
your face and easily slide his cock all the way in... but it's a little harder for
you to control the thrusts of his cock since you won't be able to pull your head
back.
However, once you really get into it in this position, you can grab his
butt and pull his groin up against your lips and just lie there for a while
enjoying his balls on your nose, his bush tickling your chin and his cock deep
in your throat. Just don't forget to breathe, okay? This position, which is
similar to 69, also feels nice to him as the bottom of his coronal ridge rubs
against the back of your throat as he strokes it in-and-out. In addition to
being very psychologically erotic to your man, it is also a BIG visual turn-on since
he’ll be able to watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as his cock
slides in deep.
know
you can do it… so why not
give throat fucking a try?!
know
you can do it… so why not
give throat fucking a try?!
Once you're ready for him, close your lips around
his cock and let him push it about halfway into your mouth. You'll probably be
nervous now so play around with it some and relax. Once you're relaxed, signal
him to start. Now he begins to slowly slide his cock deeper-and-deeper into your
mouth. As the head of his cock nears the entrance to your throat, signal him to
stop. Rest in this position, using your tongue to play with his cock until you
are relaxed and ready for him to shove it home. Then, taking a deep breath,
flatten your tongue out under his cock and signal him to slide it slowly down
into your throat. Inhale it around the corner (if you have to) but try to let
him push it around and then on down deeper-and-deeper until he's got the whole
thing buried in you. Although the feel of his cock in your throat will be the
same, the sensations of him thrusting it into your throat will be far different
from those you experienced when you were sliding your throat down over it. That
said, it really turns on many women!
Hold him against your face until you need to take
a breath, then signal him to withdraw his cock far enough for you to breathe
freely. Let him hold it there while you breathe normally and relax again. Then,
take a deep breath, signaling him to slide his cock back down to the bottom of
your throat and hold it there until you need to take a breath. Keep doing this
until he can sense when needs to pull his cock out for you to exhale. And, when
you've filled your lungs and are ready for another stroke, gradually increase
the nature and speed of his stroke from a slide to a thrust until you begin to
feel uncomfortable with it. Let him pull it up out of your throat and almost all
the way out of your mouth and then thrust it right back in without pausing,
stroking its head from your teeth to the bottom of your throat in one motion.
Use the time between when his cock clears your throat on the way out and before
it starts back into your throat again to quickly exhale and inhale. Let him
increase the speed of his thrusts until it interferes with your breathing. Once
you're comfortable with him stroking his cock back and forth between your teeth
and the bottom of your throat, take a deep breath and let him use short quick
strokes just popping the head of his cock in-and-out of your throat until you
need to breathe. Take another deep breath and let him make short fast strokes
deep in your throat with his groin gently bumping your lips until you need to
breathe.
He should increase the length of his strokes
again until the head of his cock is stroking from your lips to the bottom of
your throat, with his groin gently bumping against your lips. Let him learn to
pull his cock out of your throat slowly and smoothly enough to keep it from
coming out of your mouth and find out how fast and hard he can thrust his cock
back into your throat without it either becoming unpleasant or too fast for you
to breathe. If you'd like him to thrust it in faster but need more time to
breathe, then slow his withdrawal stroke.
That's it... that's throat fucking! Keep changing
the length and speed of his strokes, how far his cock goes into your throat, how
far it comes out into your mouth. Find out which strokes feel best to you, after
all, you're the one being fucked and you should enjoy it too.
If you find that you're breathing too much and
hyperventilating – or you're really into it and want to speed up his strokes
even more – turn that Bolero tape back on and change your breathing pattern.
Inhale just before his cock enters your throat at the beginning of the first stroke,
then exhale just as it leaves your throat at the end of that stroke. Next, take
it right back in on the second stroke with your lungs empty, then inhale just as it
clears your throat at the end of that second stroke and take it right back in with your
lungs full. In other words, instead of inhaling-and-exhaling on the same stroke,
inhale on the first, exhale on the second, inhale on the third, and so on.
Timing is key: some people have even used a metronome to keep her breathing and his
strokes synchronized. Continue repeating this cycle for as long as it feels good, until you get tired, or when he
cums. While describing it verbally sounds complicated, it's really not hard to learn and soon becomes
second nature.
It's important that he know that he must always
take reasonably slow, steady, even strokes, especially when he cums. You have to
guide him when you want – or are willing to accept – faster, harder strokes.
He must start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the
two of you. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the
motion of his cock straight and lined up with your throat.
One other word of caution concerning throat
fucking: Do NOT let him get carried away when he starts to cum! He'll
have the urge to thrust his cock all the way down into your stomach, but that
urge to thrust has to be controlled. The most important lesson of these
early exercises
is to keep it under control! As the two of you gain confidence in each other
through practice, you can let him step up the pace and intensity of his strokes
as he nears his climax. When he's fucking you and getting near his climax, you
bring your cunt up to meet his thrusts. You can do the same thing with your
throat, respond to his climax by meeting his thrusts with your throat. Bring
your face firmly up against his groin, not hard enough to bruise your lips, just
firmly enough for both of you to know that he's got all of it in you. Use your
hands on his hips to pull his cock into you to find out how hard he should
thrust.
At least in the beginning, keep your hands on his
hips while you're throat fucking so you can guide his strokes and control where
his cock is when he cums. If you don't want to take his cum into your mouth (and
can hold your breath and relax your throat long enough to keep his cock deep in
your throat while he cums) you'll not be faced with the problem of tasting or
swallowing his cum (because it will shoot right on down into your stomach!). If
he's fucking your throat, he'll probably want to keep his cock all the way in,
using short quick strokes at the bottom of your throat as he shoots his load
down into your stomach (it's that desire to plant his seed deeply). However, while
holding your breath is helpful, if you do it too often you’ll become tired.
And if you get too tired you can easily re-trigger your gag reflex.
You must relax completely to enjoy his short hard
strokes with his cock all the way down in your throat, and he has to be careful
not to bruise your lips. To do this long enough for him to completely get it off
requires more than a few days practice. However, with time and practice
you'll become more comfortable with what you are doing. The ability to relax
will come with your comfort level. Hey, you don't actually think that this is
work, do you??? Since you've already
practiced it, you'll be able to take him completely down your throat, but may
not be able to maintain the proper relaxation and breath holding long enough for him
to shoot his load.
Each time you practice you'll be able to hold him
in longer. It'll help if you can learn to get him almost to the point of cuming
and then take an extra deep breath before he starts those final short thrusts at
the bottom of your throat. Remember that you don't want to be inhaling while
he's shooting cum down your throat! The only way you'll find out if you can hold
your breath with his cock deep inside of you long enough for him to shoot it all is to
give it a try. If you try and he's starts to cum – but it's going to take too long for him
to finish – just push his cock back out of your throat into your mouth quickly,
swallow, take a breath and let him finish. Keep practicing this until you know
your limits and how to deal with them.
It won't hurt you if he does cum in your throat,
or if some of his cum runs down your throat while he's shooting his load. It's
not very different from swallowing a thick syrup. When you swallow, the entrance
to your larynx is closed off and the liquid goes down your esophagus into your
stomach… it'll also close when his cock slides past it. With practice, you can
learn to close it yourself anytime you want to – try closing it while you're
exhaling through your mouth. The only time you'll have a problem is if you try
to inhale while his cum is running, or being shot out of a thrusting cock, past
your larynx. Even then, it'll only be unpleasant, no worse than choking on a
swallow of water. It's important that you learn to deal with this potential
problem because you don't want to interfere with the natural flow of events when
you're both enjoying his climax. The key is in your breathing: you can let him
cum with his cock anywhere in your mouth or throat, including stroking it
in-and-out of or up-and-down in your throat. He can even shoot his load down
into your throat with his cock at the entrance, just don't inhale while his cum
is running past the entrance to your larynx – swallow first, and then inhale.
Whether you're deep throating him or he's fucking
your throat, don't be too mechanical about it. Once you get used to that
luscious cock filling your mouth and throat with his belly pressing against your
face, a few short quick strokes gently bumping his groin against your mouth,
maybe with a little wiggle or two, can feel great to both of you. When the two
of you become familiar with each other’s desires, you can add more pleasure by
using your hands on each other. It will feel great to him when you grab his butt
and press his belly tight against your face, rubbing your nose around in his
bush. It can also feel great to you for him to place his hands on your head and
gently press your face against him… it's a psychological thing, sort of like
firm hugs when you're fucking. Don't forget, you can pull him tight against your
mouth and hold him there any time you want to. It's psychological, for him and
for you.
Every so often, take an extra deep breath, grab
his butt, pull him all the way into you and hold him there. Play around with his
cock, work it around in your mouth and throat, swallow repeatedly, rub your face
over his groin, play with his balls. Let him hold your head with his hands while
he strokes his cock in-and-out in quick, short, gentle little strokes, keeping
it deep in your throat, bumping his groin against your lips. Let him try those
same short strokes with the head of his cock moving in-and-out of the entrance
to your throat. Let him hold your face tight against him while he works his cock
around-and-around in your mouth and throat. Learn what feels best for each
other. If you both understand what it is that you're trying to do, as well as
the possible problems that may come up along the way, you'll never regret having
learned to give deep throat.
Hopefully your man will understand that any
initial difficulties you encounter are not a rejection of him or of what he's offering
you... that all you need is practice. If you want to master these techniques, you
CAN
– it’s all just a matter of desire. Just continue practicing these skills
at every opportunity! If THAT request is a problem for him, perhaps he
should get his head examined!!!
However, it is possible that not everyone will perfect
all of these deep throat techniques – but this inability does not make you any
less of a cocksucker. Explain to him exactly what it is that you're doing: that
you must learn to allow your throat to relax completely
while he is thrusting his cock deeply down into your throat. To do
this long enough for your partner to completely get off is admittedly difficult
and may require practice that can go on for months – maybe even years. It may
be that you are able to take your man completely down your throat, but you are
not able to maintain proper throat relaxation until he shoots his load.
Just promise yourself that you won’t stop trying or think that your blowjobs
are unacceptable. If any man isn't satisfied just to have his cock in your mouth,
then you probably don't want to have his cock anywhere inside of you.
I try and try, but it just
isn’t happening
Remember what we said at the outset: while many women can and do, not every
woman can learn to give deep throat, and not all penises are designed to be deep
throated. While relatively rare, some are just too long or too big around for the woman to handle. There are
some women that can deep throat larger and/or longer erections, but
a few penises out there are simply too thick, curved too much, or just too short
(too short? Hey, if it won’t reach
your throat, then you can’t really expect to deep throat
it can
you?).
However, these are the exceptions – the vast majority of women can deep throat
the vast majority of penises. Remember that whenever you find yourself
getting discouraged, and keep trying! If you want it bad enough, you will
be able to learn to deep throat!
- Flatten your tongue to make your throat opening
bigger – practice doing this with a mirror
- Tease his erection with your tongue while it is
in your mouth
- Press it against the roof of your mouth as it
moves in-and-out
- Try various suction pressures
- Try various lip pressures – especially at the
base of his erection when it’s deep in your mouth; press your lips hard
around his base, or rapidly press-and-release
- Learn to swallow against the head of his
erection – he will go absolutely nuts!
- While his cock is deep in your throat stick out
your tongue to lick at his balls; while this talent will take a lot of
practice, if you learn
it he’ll go even more nuts!
- Try a variety of head movements – while he’s
deep in your throat twist your head from side to side as if saying
"no"; or shake it as if saying "yes"; or twirl it around
as if you were stirring a pot – be inventive!
- Let him slide his erection very slowly
in-and-out of your throat while watching (always remember that men are
mostly visual – this applies to all of your lovemaking, not just
oral sex or deep throating)
- With his erection in your throat, rise up
slightly and push down causing the head to pop in-and-out of your throat –
repeat for as long as you can hold your breath
- As you get better and gain confidence, you can
actually deep throat him faster and faster... faster than you
imagine!
- Let him control the action through throat
fucking – it will be especially erotic when he cums
- Swallow against his head as he cums deep within
your throat
Make noises... sigh, moan, etc. Let him know you’re
having fun too! Men may mostly be visual, but hearing your ecstasy will
help drive them over the edge!
Lots of saliva makes it easier to deep
throat, because it acts as lubricant. Drooling is okay, honest (take
a look at the current crop of deep throating porno stars – Bobbi
Bliss comes immediately to mind – you'll think there is more saliva
outside than inside of their mouths!) But, if you don’t salivate enough
use a lot of water-based lubricant.
Slurp! Slurp your saliva. He’ll love it!
Remember, deep throating is a great way to avoid
tasting most of his ejaculate... if you still find the flavor unpleasant.
Continue to practice your deep throating – your
don't have to deep throat on every stroke, or even every time you give head. You
can give great head with just the tip of his cock in your mouth and he'll love
it – but it sure feels good to him when you push your face into his pubes
(sort of like how you feel when he leaves your clit and thrusts his tongue deep
in your pussy). Just know that there are couples who have devoted as many as ten-or-twelve months to developing these skills and
they have never regretted a minute of it.
All-in-all it’s a matter of enthusiasm. Your enthusiasm for his pleasure can
make up for any of the difficulties related to his size.
Remember, his pleasure is your ultimate goal. Be
creative! Have fun!! Keep in mind that his mind is his most important sex
organ, so anything you can do to turn-on his mind will only add to the depth and
intensity of his pleasure. Continue practicing, because each time you practice you'll be
able to take his cock deeper into your throat and hold it there longer. If you
believe in "the deeper the better", and if you have the desire to
both give and get the most out of giving head, have no doubt whatsoever that you'll absolutely get this one
down pat!
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